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Trey Reed: A Father to the Fatherless

Posted by in Faith | September 17, 2012

Today I reflected on not having a father my entire life.  This train of thought was partially false and partially true. The part that is true is that my father, John Dewey Reed II was taken from this Earth on May 9, 1991 and i was born May 27, 1991. All I ever knew of my father were stories that I treasure to this day more than anything else in this world. So literally, the man I am named after, resemble and come from, was never there for me by no choice of his own (though if it was his choice, I know he would be sitting next to me, swapping stories and that my life would be very different).

The false part of my train of thought earlier today was that I did have a surrogate father. As cliche as this may sound, God has been my father my entire life. When a man marries a woman and starts a family, his number one priority is to provide for and care for that family. His number one priority is to work as hard as he can to make a better life for those he loves. In my father’s absence, God has done this. My heavenly father has provided for me and my mother in some of the toughest of times. Even when it seemed like we were going to sink, God was working behind the scenes to keep us afloat. Amazingly enough, God directly and indirectly molded me into the man I am today.

Growing up without a father had its many gloomy moments, and when I look at the statistics, I see that I had the odds stacked against. I was 9 times more likely to drop out of high school than normal boys that didn’t come from broken homes; 32 times more likely to end up homeless, on the streets; 10 times more likely to end up addicted to a chemical substance and 20 times more likely to end up in prison…

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